Auto Insurance Cancellation

My daughter-in-law is breaking my son. She is a “buy me” what ever I want person and he does it.?
How do i\I try to get my son to see that his wife dosen’t look at the bills that they have but only see’s that she wants something and he buys it for her or takes he out when ever. Even though they currently had teir utilities shut off, an cancellation on auto insurance and the storage is up for auction but she still wants to go out to eat instead of eating what is in the house (even though it may only be “Oodles of Noodles” because they haven’t gone grocery shopping and they are down to very little. He has a child with her and she already had one. They just got married at a wedding that she wanted that cost them way too much and they are behind from that. He does what ever she wants – it’s like she has him by the nostrils. What can a mother do to stop her son from being financially bankrupt?
If you try to control his life then you are no better than his wife. Leave him alone and let him make his own decisions. If youre worried about him going bankrupt, maybe that is what needs to happen to wake them up. Your options are to stay out of it or pay his bills.
